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To Everything -- Turn, Turn, Turn

  • kristin5141
  • Jul 13
  • 2 min read

Make Love, Not War was a big slogan in the 1960s.
Make Love, Not War was a big slogan in the 1960s.

I was a teen in the 1960s. I believed then -- and still do now -- that it was the best time to be a teenager. My generation -- the Boomers -- was at the centre of everything -- music, fashion, the cultural revolution, and social change. It was a time of the mods and rockers, bellbottoms, the twist, JFK and Martin Luther King, Woodstock, the Beatles and Rolling Stones, Mary Quant and Twiggy, Motown, go-go boots, beach parties, the space race, Andy Warhol, The Graduate, strobe lights, protest marches and sit-ins, draft dodgers (Hell, no; we won't go -- to Vietnam, that is), hippies and flower power, and the British Invasion. Life was mint and cool, and we all felt groovy.


Then, of course, I grew up and joined the establishment and watched the next generations of teenagers leave their mark on the world. As a parent and teacher, I had a pretty good view of teens for decades. I was an outsider to be sure, but I still had a good grasp of what made teens tick, and that proved most valuable when I started writing books for kids and teens.


But then my own kids grew up and I stopped teaching, and soon I was no longer privy to the goings-on of young people. I have grandchildren -- two are adults already, and the other four are smack dab in the middle of their teens -- but they all live thousands of miles away. I don't see their daily lives, and our visits aren't that frequent. Yes, we text and Face Time, but it's not the same as being there.


About six years ago I stopped writing young adult stories set in modern times. I told myself it was because I have always wanted to write historical fiction (that's true), and if I was ever going to do it, it was time. But perhaps there was another factor influencing my decision as well. Perhaps I instinctively knew I was so far out of the loop that my stories would no longer feel authentic to today's teens. The stories would no longer resonate with them.


It was time to turn the page. Like the Byrds sang in 1965,

There is a season, turn, turn, turn

And a time to every purpose under heaven


No regrets. Others, more in step with the times, are capably filling the space I've vacated, and I have moved on to new endeavours.


One of those endeavours, as you know, is my ongoing tug-of-war with digital art. I haven't lifted the Apple pencil in about 3 weeks, but I'll get back to it. Here are a couple of the last images I created. I'm actually pretty pleased with both of them. And I'm back on track to finish my current writing WIP. I hope to have it completed by the end of summer.


Maverick -- one of my grandpuppies A blue thistle


Enjoy the sunshine. See you next month.

 
 
 

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Gabe
Jul 15

That pup is pure velvet! The thistle i3-D. You have incredible talent whether it’s words or visuals. Just keep creating. As to your cool boomer memories … I was always the outsider and missed out on that pop culture.

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kristin5141
Jul 15
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Thanks, Gabe. It wasn't until I became a teacher that I noticed the 'outsiders'. When I was a kid, I was too busy taking part in everything to really see the kids who weren't. I feel badly about that now. I wish I had made more of an effort to pull those people in.

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Diana Stevan
Jul 14

As you know, Kristin, I love your art and your writing. I have no doubt that you'd master writing for teens today as well, but it would take work and research getting into those young minds. I also know that you are interested in historical fiction, and hope you pursue that as well as your art, which is amazing. You have a gift, dear friend.


The only quarrel I have with your blog is your opening. When I read it, I thought wait a second. I thought I grew up in the best period, the 1950s. We had hula hoops, saddle shoes, and crinolines under our skirts. Our teen dances were held in community clubs. There was an innocence that…


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kristin5141
Jul 14
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Oh, Diana, thanks so much for chiming in. I smiled the entire way through your description of the 50s. Only a teen during the time would recollect all the good stuff as you have. I suspect most people remember their teens as the best era, and so it should be. 😊

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Carol Anne Shaw
Jul 14

Great post, Kristin. I think it's a good, and often necessary, thing, to "pivot" (such a buzzword these days) to a new chapter, no matter what age we are. If it doesn't "feel right," then it probably isn't. (Big proponent of "gut trusting" here.) As for your digital artwork? I would say you have NAILED it. Honestly, your creative talent is mindblowing. I can FEEL Maverick's slippery coat in that painting.

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kristin5141
Jul 14
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Thanks so much, Carol Anne. I realize it's immodest to say, but even I have to enlarge the painting to know it's not the original photo. I guess I've been aiming for hyper-realism every time I put pencil or brush to paper, and I finally achieved it. (It may be the only time, but to me, that's still another goal achieved. As for the writing, you're right. I felt in my gut, it was time. Hope your summer is going well. 🙃

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Susan
Jul 14

I can so relate to your story about knowing when it’s time to move onto something else. I have a similar story as I watch my little baby grandkids become preteens and they’re interests are so different than when they were little. I miss those times so much of adventures and curiosity.I feel rushed to finish the three books in each of my picture book series so that I can move on to a middle grade novel I started 20 years ago. Growing up in our time, patience was something my parents voiced over and over again . I’ve learned, I must obey. As to your artwork, I find it amazing. Keep going young lady. You are a gift to…

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kristin5141
Jul 14
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I think one of the wonders of story -- for writers and readers alike -- is that if done well, they show us that no matter who we may be on the outside, we all share the same thoughts and feelings, and that is a comfort. We want to be individuals, but no one wants to feel alone. Smart you to evolve with your grandkids. Good luck with the upcoming picture books.

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Kairen
Jul 14

Love that you recognised and understood it was time to change. Then had the strength and courage to do it.

Most of just cling on to what we knew, forge ahead with what we think we know now.


Your drawings are beautiful. Well done for trying and 'mastering' a new skill.

Hugs Kebs xx


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kristin
Jul 14
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Thanks, Kairen. I think it's human nature to 'hang on'. It's our security blanket, but at some point -- because it no longer works -- it ceases to provide security and we're left floundering and wondering why. When we're young, each new thing is an adventure and we go bravely forward, but age makes us cling to what we know and have grown comfortable with. I know that, and so -- despite the fear of the unknown -- I push myself to keep trying new things. (Not trying new places like you 🙃, but we're both still moving forward.) Hope the weather isn't too warm in your neck of the woods.


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